One of the hardest things to adjust to over the last three years has been that my world has severely contracted. It’s rare for me to travel more than a few miles. Certainly had no holidays in that time. I end up feeling very cut off and a million miles from anywhere.
Then you get days (like most of us) which are bleak. Sad. Depressing. When my dear mum got those days she would listen to sad music. She said it cheered her up. Although I love sad songs they just don’t cheer me up. Looking at old photos helps a lot. But these often leave me with a feeling – I wish I was there now.
So I started something a little different. My own little armchair world tour. I have a list of carefully selected webcams which I can run through in 10 minutes. Many of the webcams are places I’ve been. Some are wonderful views. Some might just be a street corner which has a poignant memory. Then a few webcams are from places I so want to visit one day.
I really look forward to my daily armchair tour. It’s exciting seeing what the places are looking like currently. What’s the weather like? Is it busy? Has anything changed? As I enjoy it so much I tend to save it up. Keep it just in case I need cheering up or calming down later.
So to give you a feel I’m going to leave you with a few of the webcams. Hope you enjoy them as much as I do.
What a great idea to cheer yourself up.
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It works for me.
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I have my webcams too. I’ve been on Google Maps many times to look in New York City, where I once lived. Forgive me being so forward, but you should try to take your son away, give him a chance to build his own bank of memories. Somewhere new, perhaps? My daughter is 20 and we ended up having more than our fair share of issues, but she does look back nostalgically at the holidays we went on. Sure, our parents are an important influence, but they’re just one of many especially when we ourselves become adults. Sorry, probably not for me to have an opinion.
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Am trying to build up the trips. Starting with day trips. It’s nit easy for him with his Aspergers. But you are so right.
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I think is a wonderful idea. x
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Thank you. It’s kinda reassuring that many of the places I love are still webcam free.
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I also know you are planning some trip and I think you will get your son on board
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I really hope I can find that balance between his comfort and wellbeing and my wallet. Not easy.
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Yeah… alas often what a lot of life comes down to.
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It does
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Great idea!
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Thank you Robyn. x
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Great pastime! Hope you get to plan and enjoy a holiday soon, it’ld do you good 🙂
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Thank you sir. I hope so.
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What a wonderful solution in your current situation. Thank you for sharing
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It really helps for me.
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A fascinating idea
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Thank you sir
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Brilliant idea! 🖤
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Thank you
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No problem! You’ve inspired me to try similar 🖤
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That’s good. x
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These are great .. absolutely great and for me, a much better way of cheering me up. Music doesn’t work for me. It seems to alter my mood too much and I don’t seem to have control of it then.
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Yes music can do that to me as well. Might be different if I liked cheerie music.
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Thank God, I didn’t like to say it, but me too. When I was growing up we didn’t listen to music, indeed there wasn’t any music in the house that I remember of at all. Perhaps for me this might have something to do with it.
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🙏 some would say my choice in music is not exactly musical.
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Some would say your style of cooking isn’t exactly cooking!! 😉
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True. More Spanish Inquisition.
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Or Lucretia Borgia! 😉
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🙏
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Great idea!
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Thank you. Not as good as that legend who went for Terrible Poetry though. x
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Who, you? 🙂
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Not me. Someone much wiser.
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Whatever.
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Or is that whoever
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I have a favorite webcam from atop a favorite beach side motel. I try to catch the sunset as often as I can.
https://obhotel.com/ocean-beach-web-cam
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Oh I like that a lot. It’s like Scarborough but without the ice blasting wind.
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What such a awesome idea . Oh that is so beautiful how can you not smile. Enjoy this. Now about listening to sad music when your sad … hmmm I’m guilty of that one . Done it for yrs. I takes me feel good . Strange what helps us isn’t it?
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I had a friend at college who would paint landscapes when she was sad. She always said that she hated painting but for some reason the moaning about painting eventually made her smile.
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Oh I love that. It’s really amazing what we find to cheer us up. I guess that’s what makes us all unique .
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I love to hear the ideas people have come up with. So creative.
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Yes it is . I do love your webcam idea. I write too when I’m sad .. and yes and sing sad songs lol🙂
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Yes writing helps. As does a walk along the seafront. Sadly we are 40 miles away.
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Oh a walk on the shore is calming . Just hard when your not close by . My friend and I had to travel 2hours to what you saw on my posts. But so worth it.🙂
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It was worth it.
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Yes so worth it!
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Well there is a lot of Switzerland there. 🙂
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Not a surprise I guess.
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Wow! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you for reading
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Excellent idea – and webcams!
As a rule, if i feel sad (which thankfully doesn’t happen very often) I’ll do one of 3 things.
– go for a walk around my garden and maybe tidy a little while i’m enjoying what blooms are open.
– lie on my bed and meditate, listening to my breathing and counting them to a four beat: In 2 3 4, hold 2 3 4, out 2 3 4, hold 2 3 4,…
– or, read one of my favourite books that make me laugh. ( Goon Show scripts amongst others)
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Reading books works, walking round my garden avoiding the mole, dog and badger holes tends to increase stress levels.
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🙏
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Nice post dear 😀 and a lovely idea.
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BY FOR NOW
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Thank you x
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Your welcome dear 😀.
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BY FOR NOW
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🙏 x
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What a fantastic idea! Time and funds keep us home, too, but webcams like this give us a chance to see life elsewhere. I should do this with the kids some time!
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It’s great fun and they can control it. Doesn’t have to be picturesque. He watched a webcam of an archeological dig.
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