Let’s see what we can find in our little part of this beautiful planet. Today it’s the village pond. Few will know it exists as it’s hidden well behind the church, backing onto farmland. Yes a footpath passes close by but if you stick to it then the water is hidden. To find the pond you need to venture off the path and slog your way through an overgrown and very muddy piece of land. Hard work but worth it.
Understandably today brought a catalogue of work event cancellations. Certainly the rest of March and April will be virtually workless. Probably May as well. Three months without pay really. But we are so fortunate. As a family we can just about survive until work picks up again. At least I will have a job after things stabilise. Many will not be that fortunate. My heart goes out to you if your in that position.
I can’t do anything about the lack of work. What I can do is to use the time it frees up to focus even more on our son. Like many kids he is concerned, frightened, confused… I need to use this time to try and make happy memories for him. And maybe me as well.
So lets see what we can squeeze out of this strange period in our life’s. Fun and good stuff might not necessarily be easy to find currently. But like the village pond, with a bit of hard work it must be there somewhere. We will find it and create memories.
The village pond always brings a smile. Its already a location which has helped form good memories. His old nursery had this thing about getting the kids to look after and care for various toys. One weekend our son was sent home with a doll in a beautiful white dress. He had to look after the doll, show her his home, care for her and record all this in her diary. He decided that he wanted to show the doll the village pond. We set off with him carefully cradling the doll. Unfortunately on the way our son accidentally dropped her in a cow pat. The poor doll was submerged, head first with just her legs sticking out of the smelly pile of poo. Our little four year olds son looked at the poor doll, then calmly at me and with a cheeky smile said the immortal words
“Dad what have you done….”
He knew who to blame at that early age. 😂
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He sure did.
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🤪🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Kinda feels like we’re all head-first in cow patties right now.
I still have some savings… enough to get by (esp if I decide not to pay property taxes and to take advantage of the 90day income tax deferral). But sooooo many Americans live beyond their means… a lot are about to experience severe shock. Even if they qualify for assistance, it’s FAR less than regular pay. I figure that reality will hit in about a month.
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Sadly the same here.
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I literally can’t watch any more news.
I think my final straw was an inflammatory article predicting 1-2M deaths in the US. China’s population is literally 500x ours but we’re gonna have 300-600x the death? I suppose it could happen over 10yrs or something but I don’t imagine that in the next 3mos.
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We report cases but not those now symptom free. The news is showing one town with 4 cases. All 4 have been released from medical care.
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The US is just now getting enough tests to start checking people with mild symptoms. No idea how many cases are really out there but deaths are now 155 for the entire country which isn’t worth panic.
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I think more and more people are shifting thoughts to – so ok now how do we make this work and allow enough of us to make a bit of money to keep things ticking over.
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Older Daughter is a nurse, she’s OVERworked, Younger Daughter works at a cannabis dispensary…plenty of business😉😂😂 And I rely on the government for my income. We’re okay financially. We’re still symptom-free too, so aside from my sanity being at risk with Ben home, it’s regular life.
I’m hopeful that despite our ‘leaders’, people will recognize our common humanity and help each other. I’m hopeful that there will be some good to balance the toilet paper hoarders. I’m hopeful that if we trip and wind up head down in cow pie, someone will pull us out and wash us off. Then, obviously, blame the tripping on the other guy😉😂💌
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It’s the same here. All our schools are closing on a Friday. Might need a crane to pull me out of a cow pat. x
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Lol… I’m glad to hear you are gonna be ok, and still have work after all this is said and done…
And also – lol – love your sons sense of humor lol – that is awesome!! 😄😄 you know that’s the story that was told right? Lol
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Thank you x.
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Gotta love this.. Oh Dad… hug… the country around you sounds magic.. on the tough days its to good to have places to escape to…
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Yes just a few minutes in nature is so good for the soul.
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Lol… gotta love that cheekiness.
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Still makes me smile.
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Lol, that is so kids for you. Ours used to blame us for everything, even the fact they fell over ten yards away.
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It’s on our job descriptions.
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Yes it was always… Look what OO did. As in YOU. When OOH was standing miles away. But maybe that is why it was OOH’s fault. Once the younger one made a mess of her room and sat there crying going ‘Look at the mess that everyone made.’
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I think I used that excuse last week. x
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He got that one off pat.
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He certainly has.
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Quite a fast learner, your boy…
Amid quarantines and madness, living in a village has some huge consolations – much easier to go out for walks away from people both to avoid contamination and potential orders to get back inside.
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Yes that’s so true. Took our dog for a walk today and never saw another person.
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I’m sure you’ll make the months memorable for both of you.
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That’s the hope.
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It is always the parent… lol! I am glad you are safe in all ways. We are doing good over here too. We will still get paid and even if things would change we could make it for a few months without salaries. And we too will still have a job. Blessings to you and your son, Gary!
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Thank you. So pleased your doing good. Maybe this will reintroduce many to a simpler, more sustainable lifestyle. x
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I hope for this too 💖
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So glad you can. a world gone or going into lock down.
If you do have some contact with neighbours, it would be helpful to set up a community contact list for a WhatsApp group to stay in touch if anyone needs help around you, or you need help yourself. I think that would work really well for people who may feel very isolated by this thing and all the financial and social problems it will cause.
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PS Sorry, lost the beginning of that…
So glad you can survive for a bit without work. Also, keep your son at home with you. Nothing positive about keeping him in school as they will be closed shortly anyway… He will be much happier with you in a world gone, or going, into lock down.
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PPS We are in self isolation at the moment as we have been experiencing some symptoms that may or may not be COVID 19. We are away from everyone as much as we are able. Our symptoms may just be a cold and fever has not figured, except for one night for a few hours. Coughs have subsided for the moment and so has the sore throat and headache.
People should not be frightened but just try to keep stress levels down, get plenty of sleep, eat lots of fruit and veg and take some vitamin D to keep the immune system strong and able to deal with any infection.
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That’s the secret. The vast majority of the stuff going round are normal bugs and colds.
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Happiness is the key.
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Schools will close on Friday anyway… Likely for the whole summer…
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Ours has already said they are moving to online lectures.
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The village has just started that.
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Oh, that is too funny. He went right at you! 🙂
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Too wise for me. x
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Good for you! Being there for him as a good parent is the most important thing and especially vital now. Everyone’s lost without guidance. Maybe your lack of work is a blessing in disguise?
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That’s what I’m hoping. Got to make the most of it.
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Good for you!
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Thank you
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Yes a bit of a chaotic time but you have seem to figure out how to make it workable and enjoyable . Happy to hear that. I remember the doll project. For myself. It was caring a small package of flour . Let’s say that was a bit interesting ( hahaha) I do not remember my kids having to do this. I wish they had I think it’s a good responsibility for some that are a bit absorbed. And need a bit of reality. Like my kids. Sadly..
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I could probably do with some as well.
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What (hahaha) some reality?
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Love it. Take care Gary.
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Thanks. Hope your doing well.
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I really needed a laugh today! So I thought I’d check out your blog.
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Hope you got one. Sending you hugs.x
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Sometimes the best things are found off the beaten path, where humans have not yet had the chance to ruin them. I can tell you that it is 9:00 p.m. as I’m reading this post, and for the first time today, I actually chuckled over the story about the doll falling into the pile of dung! Thanks, my friend!
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I’m pleased. I suspect if my parents where still here they suffered much worse hardship and fear. They would say life is hard sometimes, just got to deal with it in the right manner.
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Yep, and that is normally what I say, but … sigh … our leaders allowed this to be so much worse than it might have had to be, and they are still making the wrong decisions that some people will never recover from. I foresee long-term consequences far past the life of the virus itself for so many. Take care, my friend … keep finding those off-the-beaten-path treasures. xx
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Yes do true. We need to start thinking of ways that enough of us can do stuff at home or locally – which keeps the economy from completely grinding to a halt. Not sure I trust our current bunch of politicians to do that.
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I know absolutely that I don’t trust our politicians to do that. There are a handful trying to do the right thing, but their efforts are suppressed by the majority whose self-interest far supersedes the interest of We the People.
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That’s so our politics as well.
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lol. i can imagine this scene! so funny! xoxo
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It was hysterical x
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Thank you.
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oh dear he was a old soul in that little boy there dad. What a great story, and memory. It is so good you are OK.
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Thank you. Hope you are as well.
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all well here I am very fortunate
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That’s so good.
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Haha! Like the cow pat story!
I hope you will make some good memories during this time. I know school isn’t a happy place for your son, so I hope you’ll have some good times together now.
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Let’s hope so. x
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