2020 has been some year. Is it really only August. Time seems to have so slowed down. Many things have just stopped. Live Music most definitely.
Looking back to the start of the year it all seemed a bit different. We were looking forward to a fantastic concert year. I had worked my socks off and secured a whole list of discounted tickets. It was on paper a great year of gigs and some top bands.
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The Who
Whitesnake
Foreigner
Europe
Aerosmith
Wayward Sons
Ozzy
Saxon
Deep Purple
Blue Oyster Cult
Hollywood Vampires
Killing Joke
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On paper that’s how it will remain for this year. All cancelled some pushed into 2021. So yes something potentially to look forward to. BUT…….
Has the concert zone closed for us. It was always a delicate balance for Hawklad. His enjoyment of the music, the spectacle, a chance to see the bands he loves to listen to. Balanced against his social anxieties. His fears of strangers and crowds. The positives just outweighing the negatives. As a result he could get himself to concerts. Yes it would need his hoody pulled up until the lights went out. But he was ok doing that as he felt that rock crowds were easy going and accepting of all kinds of looks. This was confirmed on our first concert trip. Dad wore the most embarrassing T-shirt he could find. Hawklad was reassured to see that I didn’t get one single strange look and was never asked to leave.
But now it’s a different world. Hawklad definitely sees it differently. Heightened fears and anxieties. The ‘is it ok to attend concerts’ calculation he would perform has got a different answer now. The negatives outweigh the positives. I know the medical advice is that this new world view could become a semi permanent switch in his Aspergers. A dynamic which won’t automatically switch off when the pandemic finally goes. It may take years. May never switch back. We just don’t know.
So maybe that’s it for our concerts. If so then it’s kinda fitting that three of the last bands he got to see just happened to be his favourites. Alter Bridge, Kiss and Alice Cooper.
So let’s enjoy the memories. It might be the year Live Music stopped for us but it doesn’t mean that music has stopped. Most certainly not.
I hear you!
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That is a lot of concerts in one year! I am sorry you missed them. Stupid COVID! It definitely caused a lot of anxiety in Hawklad as well. We have a similar discussion here about “would you go to the movies if they opened.” I’m a ‘heck no’ kind of girl, but Bob is of the ‘sure if we socially distant’ kind of guy. I can’t imagine a time where I will be comfortable in the theater. Every cough will give me the heebie jeebies. But I can still meander through the world and function. I can’t imagine what Hawklad is going through.
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Yes meandering through the world is such a great way of putting it. I would think unless it’s a monumental Avengers Movie then we won’t be venturing to the movie theatre again. x
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It’s so weird how everyone holds up phones instead of lighters now.
I hope going to shows isnt a thing of the past for you guys! Maybe outdoor shows would be doable? Ah, the future will take care of itself!
We live in the now, and we remember the good times! I saw KISS is 83 or 84, no makeup. It was a good show, but I bet the full makeup was awesome!! Hollywood Vampires would be cool.
💌💌
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I hold up my phone usually shouting – will you focus you useless heap of plastic…… Kiss are due to do one more festival here next year. We saw their last ever indoor English show apparently. The Vampires are epic – That was a top show. They were brilliant but we also got to see The Damned and The Darkness. Like a mini festival. xx
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I am so sorry, Gary, for both of you and I will be praying that that switch will not stick, that it won’t be permanent. I do hope he gets to enjoy his favourite bands again one day. Until then enjoy the music. I wish I could send this to someone of influence like a band manager or something. I wish you both much happier days ahead. Hugs xo
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I suspect it’s going to be years before he starts to repair the bridges enough to do these things again.. Thank you xx
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Hopefully not years, will be putting in a request for miracles for Hawklad and for you.
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Thank you x
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You’re so very welcome 🙂
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We got to the Fraternal Order of Eagles tonight. They had a live band and I got to dance 💃
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They sound so cool.
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And enjoyable.
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Good x
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You’ve great memories! One day perhaps you’ll be able to go again
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Just got to see which way the road takes us. Always concert DVDs.
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Yes, or online ones!
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We’ve introduced a music night where we listen to the music of one band, all evening. This is something we’re going to retain as we both miss going to live concerts. Maybe you could do something similar?
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That’s a cool idea.
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It’s a lot of fun and I’ve managed to turn hubby onto a lot of new artists.
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That’s good.
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Oh my God you just took me right back to being a kid with my brothers at band practice. Eldest was lead guitar / vocalist and now and then right out of thin air someone kicked in Detroit Rock City.
My brother pretending to be Paul Stanley bouncing furiously from one side of the practice room to the other and too knackered to get that first line out in one go. He did the bouncing to absolute perfection too.
“FEELAH TAHH SADDU… NAAA *mic feedback and crash
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That’s a cool video. I think many of us pretended to be either Paul or Gene.
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I hear ya. I’m not really a concert person, but i miss seeing movies in the cinema 🙁
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Ditto!
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🙏
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Will you go back to the cinema?
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I don’t know. It seems so unnecessarily risky…
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I was listening to someone who went. They said it was unnerving. Wouldn’t be going back any time soon.
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Also sorry (got carried away being taken back to that crappy old band practice room) I do think live music will recover and probably be restored back to its former glory if I’m honest. We have provisionally booked in for a full weekend at studios in Liverpool and the first available date for the main studio and sound booth is end of March next year. If musicians are recording it means they’re also playing so although we may have to hang on a little longer and wait for next summer to really enjoy the open gigs and festivals there’s still plenty to be enjoying from home in the meantime.
You could ask Hawk to pick three of his favourite songs preferably different bands and genres. Ask him to accept a challenge and little project which is to learn all the different instruments in each song, be able to identify and chop / change and switch from one to the other on cue and learn key changes and how to count them in bang on etc.
Amazing how much that helps develop a really keen ear and natural affinity for music which by the time gigs and festivals are back on, he’ll be hearing it all with a brand new pair of ears 🙂
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Maybe the vaccine will change the equation. I was thinking of when things ease to start with just open air stuff. Build up his confidence that way.
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Yes, 2020 is really a strange year. So many things stopped. I’m so so sorry that you will miss the live concerts. And … the photos are great!
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Thank you
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THE SHOW MUCH GO ON!
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Yes it does. Maybe just with concert videos and watching live shows on the computer, as the start. x
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I think they would scare the life out of me, but I do hope you get them back
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Just got to see where the road takes us.
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Indeed
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🙏
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The year a lot stopped. But hopefully it will all come again.
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It will. Just at different speeds for everyone. x
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Abso, my friend. I have said throughout this, everyone is doing that for so many reasons.
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We are. I must admit every time Johnson spouts on about a moral duty to do something, I naturally head in the other direction….
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He’s such a shining example…;.
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🙏
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In fact if you change just one letter of that word shining, you also get the other kind of example he is…
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Thining… he is on a diet 🤪
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The letter is certainly t. But the start of the word is not where I was thinking of placing it…
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😀😀😀😀
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At least he got to see some of the greatest.
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Yes he did.
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What a lineup! And my favorite Kiss!!! I loved the pics of them! Well, I hope you are still rocking that house of yours with them. Remember loud! Well, only if your son is comfortable with this. And your son as great taste. I listen to Alter Bridge everyday. Thanks to you two😊
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Got to keep doing that. Music is still great to listen to. Alter Bridge is always on here.
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I’m do happy you introduced me to them!😊
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Good 😃
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❤️
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🙏x
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Right, it doesn’t mean that music has stopped. Nice post Superdad. ☺
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Still so many songs to be added to the playlists. 🤗
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Looks like you had some excitement at those concerts, at least. Something to remember but I hope the lad gets to do it again.
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I hope so to.
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I hope one day we’ll all feel safe enough to go again. ❤️
My anxiety the past few years has limited how many concerts I’ve attended, but this year I had purchased tickets to 3 concerts: one in March and two in April. 🤦♀️ so needless to say, they were cancelled and I just found out they won’t be rescheduled. (Not sure I would have gone if they had been rescheduled for anytime soon anyway)
Oh well. 2020.
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At this rate not sure the start of 2021 will be any better for concerts. Might get away from some outdoor ones.
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Yeah that’s probably true 😔
Where I am it will be getting cold soonish but hopefully next spring/summer 🤞
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Got his musical tastes from you, didn’t he?
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He did a bit. About the only thing he got from me. x
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Sounds like he has your wit too
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Better than mine xx
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