This was a year ago. I stopped on one of my long runs to take this photo. It would have been just after 9am and Hawklad would have been in school. After the run was finished I would then drag my muddy body to the supermarket. Definitely seems like an eternity ago. I wonder when I will go running here again. Probably not in 2020.
We all need those things in life to hold on to. A person, a friendship, a love, faith, a hobby, a destination. It will be different for everyone. Maybe it’s one thing. Maybe it’s a range of things. But we do need these in our worlds. For our health and wellbeing. I remember listening to a politician who I really respected. He talked about his love of hill walking. How walking had become such an important part of his life. But he was sad because due to work demands he had been forced to stop something he loved so much. Tragically it didn’t work out for him and his life was cut short. We do need to hold onto these things which lift us up. We all need to find the time. Listen to what our inner selves are telling us and needing from us. Hold onto and treasure those things and people we love.
So running has gone. I’ve found better more enriching things to focus and care for. But I realise that I do need a fitness activity to replace running. Ultimately the exercise bike is monumentally boring. So at present running has been replaced with yoga. Briefly stopping to take a photo has been replaced with failing to get anywhere near holding a handstand. Happy Days. I feel another lego yoga post coming on. You have been warned.
Joking to one side, please remember to find the time for YOU. You need that.
That is so true and profound. We often become so busy that we are not able to do things that make us feel good. I really do not understand why we do that. Well, as long we keep replacing, one good habit with another, I guess everything is good to go. Thank you for this reminder.
Regards,
Rupa.
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Thank you
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Loved the picture.
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That’s kind of you
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That photo looks like where I live in Suffolk. I used to go jogging, but now the knees say no. I took up walking and cycling instead, both of which I enjoy.
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They are great exercises.
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A lovely post and the photo … I can’t stop looking at it. And now I’m looking forward to the next lego yoga lesson.
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Thank you. Having suffered the crow pose today. That might be the next one.
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I’ve been thinking about trying yoga, too! I’ve never been a runner, but I used to take long walks before kids came a long. Nowadays even if the opportunity to walk does come along, I’m uncertain about it because of that damn plantar fasciitis however that’s spelled. It’s better than it was a month ago because I FINALLY got new shoes–Sketchers. They’re ok, not my first choice, but they have decent heel support, had good reviews, and the inserts I like fit, so huzzah to that. Small victories, yes?
How are the school matters going? (I’m sure you’ve already posted about that.) Blondie prepares to return in person on Monday while the boys have to attend online. At least I’m FINALLY in touch with the school specialists to get more aid for Bash. Hoping and praying you get some good news sometime , too. xxxxxxxxxxx
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It looks like he won’t be ready to go back on the 14th. Going to be a long process. So hope Bash gets more aid. That would be such a relief to you. xxxxxxxxx
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It really would be. It’s going to be a looong process for everyone. At least you two are supporting one another at home. That’s important. xxxxxx
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It is important. Long process but one we can do. xxxxxx
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Definitely Gary, me time is very important. LEGO yoga posts are so much fun. 😃
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We all need Me Time.
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We do.
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Beautiful, tender post. Someone with such a tough life yet looking out for everyone else with this reminder to let flowers bloom in us.
How right you are, Gary. After years of enjoying other people’s efforts with gardening, I just planted my first rose. I’ve a long way to go with it but already I can feel its power over me. No matter how busy or rushed or stressed I am, that wee plant beckons me to its side twice a day. Each time, something stills and quietens within me.
We all need that. How right you are.
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I think we often forget how delicate we are. Sometimes we don’t listen to ourselves. Often we don’t listen to those who care when they tell us.
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True!
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Great that you have found yoga. I’m surprised at how much I have come to enjoy it.
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Today was the crow position. More chance of nailing that than a headstand. 5 seconds so far before I topple over.
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I can’t even lift myself off the floor for crow. Currently attempting plough without breaking my neck
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That’s on my banned list. Will stick to the crow. x
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It is so not on your banned list!!
The crow is tricky as …
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It’s on my banned list. My back doesn’t do that. x
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Something to practice.
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Time for self is so important. I selfishly write, I suppose.
Your much admired hill walker, was it John Smith, by any chance?
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Yes it was. He would have been great for the country. Thoroughly decent person who cared about people.
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He certainly was. I remember exactly where I was when I heard the news, too. A great shame.
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I was driving into Middlesbrough. I had to pull over, just in shock.
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Serious question – have you ever considered horse riding as in both of you? Excellent all round exercise, great for improving balance, posture, helping with motor coordination and can work wonders and boost mental health just from time spent with a horse or pony and the calming effect they can have.
A lot more fun than riding a bike and yoga. Probably safer too come to think of it.
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Horses and me have issues…. Keep talking about letting Hawklad have a go. He’s great with animals.
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Yeah I thought he was 😀 Worth giving some thought for Hawklad especially. There are huge benefits in equine therapy which works wonders for confidence, self esteem and helping with anxieties. Even if he’s not keen to ride he can still enjoy them on the ground, learn about horse care and stable management and they’ll benefit from his company and gentle nature too. Horses are exceptionally good at judging a person and
Might also be the ideal time for you to get over whatever issues you have and make peace with a friendly gentle giant who could do the job and become a new best friend in no time.
Link for reference in case you’re interested and a brilliant video of Daniel talking about his love for horses. He made me properly laugh with his straight talking no nonsense thoughts about school I’m still laughing now.
https://www.learningdisabilitytoday.co.uk/the-benefits-of-therapeutic-horse-riding-for-autistic-children
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That’s such a lovely video. Was thinking about using animals in his rehabilitation into the world again. Horse riding might be a great option.
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Horses are FANTASTIC for kids on the spectrum. Ben’s school has an equestrian therapy program… they bring a horse and a pony to the school and let the kids ride while the staff walk the horse around the back sandlot.
If Hawklad is willing, I bet it would help his anxiety immensely.
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Yes definitely going to try and work that into the programme. x
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Good thoughts
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Thank you
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Very true. We all need time to step back and recharge our batteries.
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But how often do we try to run on empty.
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We all do at times.
It’s easier said than done, but I do make a conscious effort to to take time for myself. I don’t always manage but it does help to know when JI am starting to push myself too much.
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I need to learn from you.
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Excellent, another yoga post!
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One coming.
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Definitely. We must each find our ways to take care of ourselves. I like walking though I can’t say as I am consistent with it. So much depends upon the day and how I feel. Nice photo!
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It’s so easy to neglect ourselves when we are consumed by the bigger picture. But we work better when we are nit running on empty.
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So true!
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Very well said. Is it possible to take a run around your area or where you live? Even if it’s a short jog. And yes, have to take care of you. I’m working on that. Lost a bit too much this week of that I finally walked and then found myself a book I did not finish months back and said the heck with it ill start from the beginning. and fell asleep.with it on my lap 😊.
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We can run, just as on doesn’t like to be left alone and he doesn’t like the idea of me running through a pandemic. 😀
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Ok, I understand that. 😔
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I don’t have time for me. I can’t put up with myself either. 😀 I’m too impossible. 😀
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I’m sure we can try to work on that. 😀
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Work, yep. I am hard work. 😀
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Well I will just have to work harder then. 🤪
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Stay out of the rain, Superdad.
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I will. You to. Hope you have a wonderful weekend
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You too, Superdad.
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😃✏️☂️
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I agree – me time is very important. I am excited to see the next lego yoga demo 🙂
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Thanks Robyn. Hope the running is still going well. 😀
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Not so good, but I am not putting as much pressure on it. Not sure which is the chicken or the egg here. Not being able to find a secluded placed to run a long distance because of 2020, or I’m just needig a break. I did get four miles in once this week. They weren’t fast, but it was cooler and I didn’t stop. That is something, I guess.
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It keeps you going until better times open up to you. Which I hope is soon. x
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For you too! x
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Let’s hope so.
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How very true
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Is it still raining there, it is here
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topped yesterday…Let us not faint. Sunny today but cold sun.
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Can you send a bit if Sun this way. It’s definitely two jumper weather. x
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Happily. But it truly ain’t warm. Bloody freezing all day.
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It is here.
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Very much in agreement. I have found 2020 has messed with me (as it has everyone else). For a long time I was ok with it being important to do my bit for the NHS. But in the past couple of months, I found I needed to make more time to do things that make me love life. I must admit, having Jack near makes it easier. As soon as he came back he could see that I was a shell of myself. I was chatting with friends and family on the phone when I could, but not being with my friends had made me kind of shrivel up inside. He has been correcting that and lightening my heart. He always livens up the day, with his infectious joyfulness and spontaneous fun loving attitude.
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I am so very pleased for you Mel. x
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I’m always trying to work ME time into the day. I sacrifice sleep, which isn’t smart!
I’m really having fun with my Sciencey Stuff and the photography.
Looking forward to another Lego Yoga Demo!😂💌💌
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Any suggestions for the demo. xx
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I suggest you let Hawklad be your creative consultant 😉 He’s got a wicked sense of humor, that one!😂😂💌💌
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Yes that could make it very interesting. xx
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Thanks for the reminder that “We do need to hold onto these things which lift us up.” Here’s wishing that the time soon comes again when you can go running along your favorite routes 🙂
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Thank you.
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I grieve for your running as well. It keeps me sane. Holding a plank and push-ups are what I am doing during our wildfire season when running outside is out of the question. Blech, would rather run!
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Hope you run soon.
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I stopped my car last year to take a very similar picture. Running was never my thing what with bad feet and legs, but I have friends who did it and were devoted. So I know it’s important. I hope you get it back but Yoga is good in the meantime. People swear by it after all.
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Thank you
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We do all need that me time. I need to start reading books for pleasure again.
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Hope you do.
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Yes we definitely need to find things that bring us peace and joy. Tools for managing stress and anxious. And, also bring us laughter, like your yoga! 🤣💕
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When I fall over at yoga can only laugh about it. xx
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Your knees will thank you for giving up running. Really. I hear them now.
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I hope so.
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