Sometimes the middle ground is vacated…..
I think lack of sleep does something to my psyche. Normally I’m pretty much good at compromising. Finding the middle ground. NOT TODAY.
School has a weekly extra 90 minutes of schooling. As our beloved and apparently never corrupt Government imposes it’s esteemed will on schools, headteachers have very limited scope to vary the teaching. To add new stuff. So our school brought in a longer school day once a week. This would allow for dedicated non-curriculum learning. Pupils get to choose from a range of options. It’s all about learning different skills, building confidence, developing interests. Completely behind the principle here. Especially when the options are varied enough to allow each child to find something that interests them.
Although Hawklad is not in school at present school want him to take part in the scheme. Which he has done so far. So it’s time to pick this terms option. The pupils got to pick options in the classroom, then a couple of weeks later Hawklad was approached for his selection. Sometimes (and understandably) he is forgotten about in a process. So the best options have filled up and are fully booked. So what’s left?
Dance
Everyone can create music
Everyone can create video
Everyone can create drawing….
“Just NO Dad. I would rather do French than those. I’d rather wash your car than do those. The animal management course would have been ace. As would Astronomy. As would the archeological dig option. Those last 4 options are still not fully booked for a good reason…..”
I phoned school to see if we could find another option. Could he be fitted into one of the full options. NO….. THOSE ARE THE ONLY AVAILABLE OPTIONS.
Ok normally I would try to work with school to find some middle ground. Today NO. Just told school that he isn’t doing any of those, so TOUGH…You will just have to mark him absent for that part of the day.
I think he is much happier with the new range of home based options. Xbox, football in the garden, table tennis, watching The Simpsons…..
Sometimes there is no available middle ground
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That’s right.
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I think you did right.
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❤️
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I agree. If they weren’t willing to work with you, Hawklad should not be forced into something he does not prefer. Frustrating school!
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It is. Have you started running yet.
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I tried to. It was slow going. I felt like I had run 15 after 3. It is going to take some work to make 3 feel okay – I just don’t want to do too much anymore. A solid 3 would be fine.
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I’m so pleased you have started. That made me smile lots.
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Bravo! I too did something similar yesterday for one of my children and we’re all the better for it today.
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Good for you.
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It’s not fair to give him the options no one else wanted.
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It isn’t
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🤬
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You know how awesome a Dad you are? Well you’re super awesome, MEGA awesome and that’s what we love about you. 💖 He is one fortunate son.
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Thank you my friend ❤️
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Good for you! You did what is best for Hawklad. See? You who know him best are, in fact, tailoring his education. 🙂
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Hope your doing alright 😊
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Thanks. Had my ups and downs recently but surviving. 🙂
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I’m sending you so many prayers ❤️
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Thank you! Same for you! ❤
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Hang in there ❤️
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Thanks! You, too! ❤
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❤️😊
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Wow… school is tough. So stringent and unbending. I think I’d be the same as you on this one. They goofed by forgetting about him and not giving him a chance to choose something he’ll enjoy. There’s no point forcing him to do something that’s supposed to be a fun option for him when it’s not going to be fun….
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It should be fun. We learn when people are relaxed and enjoying things.
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Good for you. Time to take a stand.
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It was
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How frustrating!
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It is
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Damn disgrace, trully. You did the right thing.
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Sometimes it’s good to rebel x
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Indeed. We are all rebels at heart.
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Best way. ❤️
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Yes, dance is not everybody’s first choice… as it obviously seems. I am sorry, he was forgotten. My sons (actually both) were on the unlucky side when it came to picking special projects. Either their favorites were already taken when they could make their choice or they got the last of three options they had to pick.
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That will be so frustrating for them.
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But they learned to step out of their comfort zones… my youngest one, unfortunately often picks the butt card… But he learned to deal with life a lot through that.
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Pleased it works for them
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It had to! Now they are grown up and are able (hopefully) to deal with life’s lemons to make juice from them.
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That’s the hope
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You are a father, you know that…
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❤️
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💖
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❤️❤️
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Well… I think Hawklad would do well BEHIND the video camera. I’d like to see the antics of the pets, or maybe Superdad rocking out, playing air guitar😘😂😂
Big Pants to school and their uncompromising stupidity! You done good! Have a chocolate or three💌💌💌💌
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A big pack of chocolate biscuits is a grand idea Xxx
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Why can’t they let him choose a different option? That seems highly irregular and most unfair. I’m glad you told them to stick it! ❤️
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They argue that if they open it up for him they open it up to everyone ❤️
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Systems are so inflexible. A paediatrician came to talk to our team the other week. She said something that really struck me … “If systems are broken then you will break the people trying to navigate them”. How often do we see this happening? Flex in systems is essential. I’m sorry he can’t take part because of stupid ‘rules’ xx
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You can see it . Can see it. Sadly those in charge don’t see it through the bottom of an empty champagne glass. xxxxxxxxx
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Are you saying Hwklad can’t dance? Can he whistle? You know how to whistle don’t you?
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Funnily enough we both cant
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Whistle or dance?
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Both…..
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I bet they were surprised!
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I think they were.
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Good!
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You did right there. Hawklad should not have been treated like that. He wasn’t given the same opportunities at the same time as anyone else.
He should have been allowed one of his choices.
So too right, you said no.
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Thank you
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Well, as long as he’s happy, who cares, I mean, if the school wouldn’t fit him in to another of the subjects, make allowances, then I say fuck them! Dont work with them! Who cares! Just do what your doing for hawklad…you’ve got the right idea!
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Being happy is the key xxx
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