
Over the last few weeks we haven’t seen much of the sky. Mostly it’s been like this….

But when it has parted….

On another misty, dark day, we were heading back from the City and passed a stricken smoking car. Suddenly I was taken back years. Back to when I was young and Dad’s 4 wheel pride and joy. His MK1 Ford Cortina, 1% Silver 99% Rust and Holes. Top Speed, who are we kidding, there was nothing TOP about that thing. Stationary to walking pace in about 2 days before the inevitable smoking breakdown. I had completely forgotten about that Henry Ford Miracle and strangely I was smiling.
Maybe that caught me off guard….
We drove past a Children’s Play Barn, I brought Hawklad here countless times when he was a toddler. Fun times, so many happy memories. But life moves on, he became too old to venture there. The Xbox world became way more attractive than climbing around a Pirate Ship Climbing Frame. Now he’s doing College and the Christmas Present list is way different now. As I took another glance at the Play Barn in the Rear View Mirror, feelings of melancholy swept over me.
Where did that time go……
You never get them back, those innocent years. You’ll just have to hope you stay close.
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All those sleepless nights and yet it goes so quickly.
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Biblical sky.
Precious memories from those days. Don’t blink!
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that’s the key, don’t blink
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We had a sunset like this today and I didn’t have the camera as we were in the car. Typical!
Happy New Year to you both Gary
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Happy New Year Di
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Thanks Gary. You too.
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Seems to me that you’re saying goodbye, Gary. To the season, and to specific epochs. As melancholic and perhaps as painful as it may be, it could also mean that you’re making room in your heart for new possibilities.
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i must say this post made me think similar thoughts.
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Could it be that we all do this unawares, mourning in order to make room for something new?
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maybe it’s a reflection of the journey each of us are on.
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Oh yes.
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What a beautiful sky!!
Yes, children growing up is Bittersweet! But you can be so proud of Hawklad and look forward to the new stage of life where new adventures await. Though how I do wish that life could have a rewind button at timws and we could enjoy our children being little again for a short period. 🙂 I get it! ((Hugs))
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I partly wish I had tried to remember, tried to take more photos and videos of those wonderful times. Hugs to you as well ❤️
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I understand! I have wished the same. 💕
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I can relate. With both my kids in college I spend a lot of moments inside nostalgia.
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it does go so quickly, so quickly
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I’ll dig out the photo I took t’other morning while out and about at work. Let’s see if it’s the same sky we all live under in the UK these days. You’ll have to check out my blog in about an hour.
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You forget just how small our country is, definitely the same sky.
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time does go by so fast! It is only like yesterday when I was 20. Now I am 44. Crikey! X
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it’s like I was a kid and now I’m older than my Dad 😂😂😂
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Those memories are the best. And the years do fly by so quickly, don’t they? I find these gray winter days so hard too and I’m glad you got blessed with that epic colourful sky!
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those skies are such a reminder of what an amazing adventure this can be.
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Memories….blessed and happy 2025!
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Happy 2025 to you as well
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That time went in turning the “trying to cope” in your blog title to “coping well”.
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I guess it’s just working on the next part of parenting now.
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Occasions that mark time, like birthdays and New Year always evoke such thoughts. The trick is in trying to remember the good times and let the rest go and then move on. Easy to say. Wonderful pictures. Best Wishes to you and Hawklad for 2025.
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Happy New Year to you as well
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Wow… sky! Happy New Year, both of you – 2025 (wow, again).
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I wonder how many wonderful adventures have started by someone seeing a sky like that and then picking up a pen.
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I hope you enjoy the good memories
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I hope I do as well Sadje
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🙏🏼☺️🙏🏼
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Yes! I said the same thing to Bo a month ago–no one requested to visit parks this year. That used to be an essential part of any outing: a place where kids could run around for a bit before visiting a library or the next trip/errand stop. Nope. No more. And Christmas has changed a lot for us, too, in that we did not stop by to say hi to Santa this year. I saw a line of tiny kids waiting their turn, and my heart just ached for that. xxxxx
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The thing that hit me this year as well, was walking past the big toy store and seeing the parents come out with toys. It was stressful but so much fun doing that, seeing the joy when they opened those gifts. xxxxxx
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yes, I know what you mean. so much changed with the children’s attitude towards Christmas in the last year or two. We still do what we can to keep some of that magic.
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I’m sorry you felt melancholy, Superdad. I’m sure those times were so precious and wonderful.
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thanks Tina ❤️
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Melancholy is going to visit sometimes, but it’s still good to share the memories. Thanks for these beautiful photos, catching and saving moments in time.
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Those wonderful memories are worth the melancholy that sometimes goes with them
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True. The wonderful memories last forever.
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Beautiful photos and lovely memories! ~Ed.
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Tine does move so quickly. Your photos are lovely, and I think the melancholy is pretty inevitable when revisiting these places and memories. ❤️❤️
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