Definitely it’s a time of change. The season of change. Yesterday was T-shirt and shorts. Today is wet, windy and chilly. 50F probably means the T-shirt season has gone and it’s time for woolly jumpers. Ice Cream replaced with Hot Chocolate.
It’s that time of year.
Four years ago I would have been sat at home looking at the ‘Sincere Condolences’ cards on the mantelpiece. It was a couple of days after my partners funeral. Life was looking bleak. But as the years pass this time of year has increasingly felt like a time of personal change. The end of a period which marked the passing of my partner and mum. A time of sadness moving to thoughts of preparing for winter and all that entails. Thoughts of loss replaced by thoughts of short days and long nights. This year is complicated with our ongoing lockdown which is likely to stretch through the entire cold months. So yes this period of change feels different . Definite change but what? In previous years the next few months brought challenges but also things to look forward to. Concerts, Football Matches, Firework displays, Halloween parties, family meet-ups and meals, Christmas Markets, crisp winter walks and runs. This year these are all none starters. Could that tip the balance of the change. Only time will tell but the change is not yet set in stone. It can still be a positive period but it will need much work.
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Mmhmm… much work and self-discipline. But we are not alone. It’s a different year, but some things that are different are good things. Things that will see us though. We can do this. Somebody keeps reminding me that… hmmm… who could it be? 😀
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We can do this. Always a wise thing to say. 😀 Things change, they will change tomorrow, no reason that can’t be for the best.
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Are you doing alright?
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I am ok. Really hope you are.
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❤ I am ❤
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I’m pleased ❤️
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You okay??? I know you will find your way to do things diff and brilliantly given all that is going on. But aye, the nights are fair drawing in as we say here and it is freezing.
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Heating has been on all day, as have the lights. It’s awful. Welcome to autumn. x
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It is particularly cold for this time of year actually. Very quickly too.
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Yes it’s suddenly as if all the warmth has been sucked out of the land.
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This is the second autumn post, in as many days, which has made me bummed that we don’t really have seasonal changes in SoCal. Heatwaves and wildfires are our nearest markers of passing time and those have been all out of sync this year.
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Looking out of our window currently. Seeing the rain, the mist,the chairs flying around the garden – you can happily have ours. 😀
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Sitting on my bed, nearly nekked with a fan blowing straight on me due to another (mild… low 90s at 2pm) heatwave…. DEAL!!
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Sitting here with the heating full on and many jumpers.
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Heat on here too, courtesy of nature. It’s now 5:30pm and I can’t stop sweating. I think tomorrow is supposed to be even hotter!
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Still cold here….
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Here to finding some new positive experiences! They are out there, sometimes the clouds cover the sun, but the sun is still shining! Hope you and your son can be surprised with some new things. Prayers!
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That’s the secret. They are out there. It might be cloudy but it’s still blue sky behind. x
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Making the most of each day is what helps get through the challenges.
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That’s the secret.
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I think you have the perseverance and the will power to handle change, whatever it may be, with aplomb. I am not looking forward to Halloween or Thanksgiving this year. It will be very different. Our son will not visit as long as Covid hovers like some kind of evil spirit covering us all with a huge wet blanket. So, no family dinners, which I find hardest to cope with. But, I will have to, so I am beginning now to try to envision a different way of being. It sure makes me appreciate my family all the more. I will find a way to make holidays special despite this evil pandemic. And I am grateful to be able to read your posts as well as the posts of others who are pressing on no matter what life throws your (their) way. God bless you, Gary, and bring you whatever strength and courage you may need.
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I’m sorry your son won’t visit. It will be tough for you. I guess it will make the next meetup, the next family dinner even better. You take care. x
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It sure will! Thanks hon, I appreciate your kind words. You take care as well, and stay away from ladders and spiky sharks.
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Thank you x
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You as so welcome, as always, my friend 🙂
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At the best of times I think Autumn is hard for a lot of people, for lots of reasons. I have very mixed feelings. It’s a time of epic beauty in Nature where I am now, but it’s the end of Summer, everything shutting down, plants and animals to bed, leaves falling. Worse, for me is the coming of Christmas. When I see flights of geese heading south and hear their haunting cries, I get a lump in my throat, but then I go to look at the Fall colours. Perspective, I suppose is necessary in all things.
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That’s the key getting a perspective that works for you.
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A sad time of the year for you. No matter him much time has passed, these days would be difficult. Sending you warm hugs
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Thank you. Sending you hugs as well.
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Take care Gary
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I will
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Melancholy has been in the air… you have all your past pain to make your current troubles feel worse too.
You’ve also totally got this! It’s good to feel ALL of our feelings. Sad days are just sad… But laughing til you almost wet yourself is right around the corner.
You and Hawklad might be isolated, but you’re also safe. You don’t have to worry about the Kootie or the missing gym sock or how you’ll fit everything into his backpack/book bag… the Sunday night/Monday morning stresses of “I cant find my…”
Maybe no concerts but no long travels, eaten ear plugs or making sure Hawklad is okay in the venue. You can blast your music and have your own concerts. Dress up as KISS or Alice… makeup and all..
And when it’s especially rough, or even just because, I’ve got a bunch of HUGS with your name on them!💌💌💌
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It’s about creating memories with the cards you have been dealt. Still got to live. Thank you Angie. x
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It will be a very special season this year. I can imagine that according to it, we will find a special way of spending it and making something new of it!
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That’s exactly right. Let’s make it wonderful.
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Yes, that’s the perfect opportunity!!
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It is
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I love all seasons! Especially autumn! Unfortunately here in Cali we get summer and a few rainy days. Alls we can do is make the most of it! 🙏🏼
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Definitely can have some of our weather. More than enough to share.
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It’s freezing! X
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Must be could if the tropics are that cold. x
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Yep ….
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I understand the sentiment. This year, I’ve learned more than ever, that time means nothing. We just make all these time markers (holidays, events, etc.) mean something. When you take them away, then what is time, really?
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That’s so true.
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So the challenge this year, will to be to make some new traditions, find beauty wherever possible and notice as many small blessings as we can, knowing there will be better things to come. How does that sound?💕
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That sounds perfect. ❤️
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May the winter weather at least be kinder.
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Let’s hope so.
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At least there is still Hot Chocolate (as long as we can still get hold of milk or milk equivalents!). And woolly jumpers. And telly.
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Those sound great.
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I know we can’t predict the future or anything … but once all is said and done… and life actually comes back after covid…
Do you see your world going back to the way it used to be ? With all the social aspects? Concerts etc?
I suppose it would?
I’m not really sure how I sit with that? I guess that’s too hard to answer
In any regard, I guess it depends on where in a persons life, they are at that point? I only say that because of how things change our perspectives
I am really glad you are starting to recover ❤️ I really love hearing that!!
Me too ✌️
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It’s funny. I have dreams but we just can’t predict what the new world will finally look like.
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