Beautiful walk but why did I do it in shorts. Those thistles are painful on the shins.
I’m trying to work out what’s more painful
The Dentist…
OR
School…
Unusually this time it’s not physical pain with the Dentist. Just pain on the wallet. How much for no work. Here is another thing. When the Hygienist is talking like at a million miles an hour about life, the universe, homeschooling. How did she remember that I’m a single dad with Hawklad at home. When she is firing questions at me about how I’m doing…what’s school doing….. will he go back….have you seen the Bond movie….
What is the protocol for responding. Do I just nod. Do I do someform of eyelash/eyebrow morse code. Do I try to talk as she is prodding around my teeth. Do I wait and save the answers up until she has finished.
It’s all beyond me.
The pain of school……
Hawklad asked a teacher a civil question about some lesson work. The teacher’s response was much less civil. Actually very sarcastic. Basically saying ‘what’s the point answering that if you can’t be bothered to send in any homework’. Hawklad stood his ground and said that he had submitted all the work to date. Teacher came back with ‘wrong, I’ve not seen anything from you all year’. Angry Dad got involved providing screen copies of all the work submitted, in the right location. Sarcastic Dad sensing blood added a screen copy of one piece of homework which showed clearly that the very same teacher had actually marked that piece of work. The words ‘Full Marks’ with the teachers signature next to it. Eventually a sheepish teacher replied ‘I might have been a little quick with those email’s’. Righteous Dad pointed out that the teacher hadn’t bothered to mark any of the other work Hawklad had submitted……
If only it was just one subject and just one teacher that I have had a run in with this week…. Much groaning which actually was probably the sound I made trying to respond to the hygienist while she was scraping around my teeth
Yes definitely today – The pain of school is far worse…….
A Dad trying to cope with the loss of his Partner and becoming a single parent. 
I am so sorry you and Hawklad have to deal with that nonsense. How horrible it all is. ❤️
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It’s just not fair on Hawklad and kids having to put up with this. ❤️
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No, it is not. That’s the sad part about it.❤️
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Lol now I am imagining you trying to answer the hygienist. funny stuff.
sorry that teacher was an ass. Glad hawklad stood his ground.
xx
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I didn’t know what to do xx
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Sounds like the difference between mental and physical pain but the dentist stirs up mental anxiety in me 😳
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I must admit this dentist is really good. I was terrified of dentists but not so much now. Shame she is so expensive.
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I have always been aggravated with hygienists trying to carry on some kind of conversation while I have things shoved into my mouth. HELLO. Can you wait until I can talk back?
Don’t even get me started on the education system.
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This one never stops. It’s so funny.
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😁
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At least he was shown the error of his ways.
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I bet he doesn’t learn
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You never know when something can change a person’s perspective.
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My extreme frustration over all the frustration you report over Hawklad’s school experiences is balanced by the extreme beauty of your photos. I love your views of the land you live in. Always excellently captured.
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We are so lucky to live here.
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When he was at school, my over six foot son at the time (still is that tall) had his last straw:
He had been off due to being ill with a throat infection. The teacher asked him about homework, but didn’t listen for the answer several times from a quiet voice. Then the teacher did a stupid
“WHEN YOU’RE IN THIS SCHOOL, IN THAT UNIFORM, YOU WILL DO YOUR HOMEWORK!”
So, being taught to stay polite and conform as best as possible, he took off all his clothes, folding and putting them onto the teacher’s table, then walked out naked and I’m still to this day so proud of his polite actions that day.
❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 🖤 🤍 🤎
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That’s awful but so like this school. At this school if your odd sick and come back you are expected to do any homework due, if you don’t then you get negatives.
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It’s totally not for the kids all this demanding them to perform to a strict schedule, it’s all for the adults pushing them. Kids do so much better when they get passion to find things out for them selves. Same goes with adults. We all do really spectacular things when we get curious, but drudge us into doing this just for the sake of it and we sink.
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Would it help to point out to Hawklad, the way NON-Gov-Homeschooling is, compared with Mainstream School from home?
https://lisahoweler.com/2021/10/07/ten-pieces-of-advice-to-make-your-homeschooling-experience-easier/
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We are starting to talk more about that.
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How wonderful, Aunty looks forward to knowing what interests gets the spark.
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Oh god, if a teacher spoke to my child that way…You handled it a lot better than I would have. I would have said something sarcastic back, like “next time before you’re too quick with emails to my child. Remember, it’s not just you going through this COVID pandemic. My CHILD is struggling through this too, and you are the adult. Be Better.”
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There are too many teachers at this school with that attitude.
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That is so sad =/
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I know I wouldn’t have been so civil… Some people are far too quick to stamp all over us…
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It’s kinda how this government wants teachers to manage classrooms.
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Trust the government to stick their oar in and mess things up!
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That teacher sounds like a pain in the ass and needs a root canal or two to set her straight. Hope you two get some relaxation this weekend!
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He’s not the only one like that as well.
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That teacher’s attitude would put me over the edge. I would seriously want to hurt them! As for dentists…it’s interesting to know that it’s not just mine that does the mile a minute talk you can’t respond to. Maybe it’s a technique they are taught…God knows why. Maybe they are nervous?
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But what are you supposed to do when they talk like that while your in the chair. I wonder if it cheers their day up.
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I think it’s an in thing for dentists. Their way of having a conversation where they always have the last word. I just make faces and shrug my shoulders. Maybe they are recording examples of how people react for a great study? Glub.
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That kind of behaviour is downright unprofessional *shakes head* sorry for you both.
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I guess it’s all related to the Governments, bring back Victorian values view.
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“I might have…..’ falls some way short of the necessary apology and rectification
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They never do apologise. I don’t know why.
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Don’t be too harsh on your dentist. She probably talks so much to distract you from any discomfort or pain 🙂 Happy am I that I don’t have school-age kids. It sounds like there are unresolved technical issues with the online teaching platform.
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Yeah, I love those conversations with the hygienist. My doctor liked to talk a lot also, while I’m trying to ask important questions.
Teachers have had a hard year. No excuse for the response you received, but they have been challenged.
They should understand that all of us have had a difficult 18 months or so and take that into consideration when responding to any inquiry.
I hope things get better for you and your son.
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Ugh, what an awful teacher! Obviously making the mistake about submission of work was bad, but if a student asked a question I would always answer, whether they had submitted work or not. You don’t withhold information from students like that. How dreadful.
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Why is it that dental hygienists do that to us? We are held captive in that chair! 😬
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I am really glad Hawklad can speak his truth<3. And, equally glad he has you to back him and advocate for him. Overall, I am sorry the two of you have to navigate this. It should not be that way. ❤
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Good for you and good for your boy. There’s a time to bite our teeth and be quiet, and there’s a time to bite someone.
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