It’s cold. Bracing on the hairy knees.
I remember my old grizzly rugby coach during those freezing cold evening midweek training sessions. Shouts of
“It’s like summer”
“Stop whinging, a bit of frost bite is good for the soul”
“Your not a southerner GET THOSE #£###%%@@@ GLOVES OFF…”
If you were found wearing gloves, hats or even a training top it meant trouble.
“Take them #@@@%%#### OFF and do 20 press-ups, then sprint round the pitch twice”
Today looking over the fence at the ice I definitely won’t be running round the pitch or doing press-ups. Will just grasp my hot drink just a little tighter. Think of memories. Many good ones. Some sad ones. It’s no surprise that the sad ones make me feel just a little bit colder.
I can remember walking across a field just after I had lost my partner. Wandering aimlessly across a snow covered field having just dropped our son off at school. Looking back and only seeing one set of tracks.
Yep grasp that hot cup just a little bit tighter.
Oh Gary, your words…. yes, keep holding tight to that cup…and feel warmed by the good memories and hopefully you feel warmed by my caring thoughts too. 🙏
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They do so warm me. Thank you ❤️
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Glad to know it! 😊❤ You are welcome!
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🙏❤️
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And get the biggest hugs from us 🤗😘
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Thank you my friend x
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Always 😊
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🙏❤️
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Tear jerker. Hugs to you and yours
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Thank you so much
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Thinking of you. Sending big hugs!
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Thanks Robyn, means a lot to me.
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Sounds like a stronger version of walk it off my husband used when kids complained during sports
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Yes it was.
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I hear hope when I read your memories that are so eloquently described. What a beautiful post. Prayers and hugs.
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That’s so kind of you. Prayers and hugs to you
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🙏❣
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🙏x
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My heart breaks but rejoices for you Oh my, the love you have for here is absolutely beautiful. I am so happy you had got this chance to witness such a love😌not many ever do .
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Thank you x
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One of those days… it’s okay to visit the past. The good and the not so good, but yes, hold that cup, be here, now. Look forward, but not too far. Look at the beautiful Sun!
And look in your comments… there’s a bunch of warmth there!
Adding my HUGS to the group!💌💌💌💌💌
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Thank you Angie. Hugs to you as well. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Keep the good memories close to your heart. And of course that warm mug too.
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I certainly will try.
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❤️
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❤️
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In the end it’s the memories that we have left. Reading your words reminds me to treasure them. All the best and peace be with you.
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Thank you so much Mike.
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… In my day young man!
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Exactly right. xxx
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love the feeling of this post…goes perfectly with the photo:)
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Thank you so much xx
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Hugs, hugs, hugs.
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Thank you Shey. That means a lot to me xxx
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AS if things aren’t difficult enough, this weather is hardly joyous. Chin up x
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It’s not great is it.
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We’ve had hard frost for weeks, so yeah… But generally, let’s be clear. I think we’ve all been better……
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Been unusually cold here.
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Brrrr
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It’s cold today
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I had a Lithuanian chemistry teacher in high school who kept one window open through the winter. She said it would help us think. Mainly we thought about how cold we were
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That made me smile. I remember watching a winter sport event on telly. It was -15 and all the athletes were dressed in 30 layers. But one athlete was in a T-shirt. The one from Siberia.
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For some reason, Nick has been popping into my head at random times over the past couple of weeks. I like and yet………….
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I know what you mean
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make it stop
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🙏
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A cup of coffee (or green tea) can give such warmth and smiles. Sending my love ❤️
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It so can. ❤️
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❤️❤️
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❤️
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So many different looks of the same scenery depending on how we look at them… Sending you big hugs and pouring more chocolate into your cup!
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That would be nice.
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☕️
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🙏
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Penultimate sentence, very poignant. XX
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Thank you xx
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Can I help you somehow? I’m extremely worried about your mood and depression level.
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Thanks. I’m ok. Kind of plateaued. Been a lot worse.
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Been a lot worse doesn’t mean you aren’t bad (per my experience). Are you reading other blogs or locked down in your own funk (when I get in a bad place, I post like crazy but don’t have mental “room” for reading)?
I clearly long for a break/escape. Can you think of any way to get one in the current world? Mine has become the stupid HappyColor app… I do their touchscreen “paint” by numbers like an addict because it’s giving me some kind of break from reality. My brain can think on things without getting weighed down.
Maybe you can find something online, or VR, augmented reality, use Teams to meet with someone you like instead of the school, roll around in one (or all) the field puddles, do my homework (worth a try), etc… anything to break your routine!?!
Seriously, I would love to help you. I’ve been in that spiral and it SUUUUCKS!!
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No that’s true. But like many of us I think I’m alright but not great at present. But could be much worse.
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Okay. Please reach out if I can ever be of help!!
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I will
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Those really painful memories tend to get lodged in our brains…I guess the really good ones do too though. Hugs.💕
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That’s the hope ❤️
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