See what happens when you let part of the garden take care of itself….
I came across a news story about parents who had threatened to take their child’s school to court. The story may sound sadly too familiar. A really bright and popular autistic boy who did really well in his Primary (First) School. He struggled with reading but the teachers tried to support him. He found out that he was really good at maths. He loved music and started to play an instrument. The other subject he loved was languages, he was always trying to speak French. Because of his dyslexia the school had used alternative methods of tuition with him. Some didn’t work but importantly some things really worked. One was using a graphical and picture approach to languages.
Then he started Secondary School. He went from a really small school to a massive one with nearly 1000 pupils. Everything changed. Even though his previous school grades were good, he was placed in the bottom set. No attempt was made to evaluate his dyslexia or even help with it. Apparently ‘nothing could be done’. The school taught him in exactly the same way it teaches every pupil, even though it clearly wasn’t working for him. He really struggled in his best subjects as well. He lost interest in languages because he was falling behind with the way school taught the subject. He stopped playing an instrument because the music lessons were awful because of the disruptive behaviour in class. He became increasingly isolated and unhappy. School used the small extra funding he received to fund general teaching assistants who could never be dedicated to his need, they covered all the pupils in the class. Often they just focused on the pupils with the worst behaviour. The parents tried to work with the system. That failed so they tried to fight the system. Their lawyers eventually advised them that they had no chance of success. Apparently the school was following Government Policy, doing what was expected of them, following the set national curriculum. So they pulled their child from the school system and have started trying to homeschool.
It is sadly a far too familiar story. This is what happens when you try to force every child through the same educational production line. When teachers are not allowed to teach freely but are forced to teach in a set way. When school is all about the needs of the economy rather than the needs of the individual child.
It really shouldn’t be like this.
A Dad trying to cope with the loss of his Partner and becoming a single parent. 
No, it really should not be like this. Thank you for bringing attention to this very important issue.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It’s getting worse which is scary
LikeLiked by 1 person
It’s an outrage and I am sure it’s happening to plenty of other parents/children. Time to make a stand which I realise is not as easy as it sounds.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Far too many children
LikeLike
Great post; an individual case story really highlights the issue in a striking way.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Our child’s education is far too important to be left to politicians to mess up.
LikeLike
See Pink Floyd, The Wall, Another Brick in the Wall, Pt. I”
LikeLiked by 2 people
They knew, even back then they knew
LikeLike
Its not right at all and you could expend a massive amount of energy on trying to fight it…and you get nowhere. We decided to spend our energy on our kid instead. We took inspiration from all those mold-breakers who went on to forge their own success despite the institutional idiocy. Look for proof – there’s more than one way to skin a cat, as the saying goes.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I just wish they built in qualification choices that were designed that were flexible to give everyone a chance to shine
LikeLiked by 1 person
But that would mean thinking putside the square!
LikeLike
It SO should not be like this. 😥😥😡
LikeLiked by 1 person
Things must change
LikeLiked by 1 person
Such a sad waste of time and potential
LikeLiked by 1 person
It so is. It has to change
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes it has to change.
LikeLike
It’s so defeating…
LikeLiked by 1 person
Sadly yes
LikeLiked by 1 person
♥️
LikeLike
As a teacher and parent, this makes me so sad. It should not be this way.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Too many children are discarded
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m afraid you’re right. 😢
LikeLike
Too many kids are being left behind
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have ssid before, find families in the same straits as Hawklad, and form a grooup. Maybe what the gtoup could do is create schools, live or online, to help the studrnts who need help. Apply for government funding, and see where you can take it. I do not mesn to be crass, but the government might be happy to get these children “out of their dchools!”
LikeLiked by 1 person
The government talk about given parents control over funding but then they control how the parents can spend it, so you do what they want.
LikeLike
So sad, Gary. What are the chances of the Tories losing the next election?
LikeLike
A couple of tax cuts, a manufactured immigration crisis and sadly I can see enough people voting for them again.
LikeLike
Why is it, all I can think of now is politicians making plasticine clay children and dropped into a sausage machine.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I do as well. Politicians should never be trusted to manage education. The current government says it all.
LikeLike
There is so much that is wrong in the world today, but apathy rules, I’m afraid…
We are on our own, and it’s up to us to help each other, as no one out there is going to…
LikeLike
Too many don’t care
LikeLike
This reminds me of one of my earlier quotes: There is no general solution for each individual, only individual solutions within the community.
LikeLike
That’s perfect
LikeLiked by 1 person
There’s so much wrong with our education system… it is discouraging (at best) to be an educator in a broken system. Beautiful flowers, btw. Hugs to you both.
LikeLike
It is broken, it always will be until the day we start trusting teachers to teach.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Very sad state of affairs 😦
LikeLike
It is
LikeLiked by 2 people
You’re right! It shouldn’t. After I pulled my son out of school I “unschooled” him for several months, letting him just be and do whatever he wanted. At that point his mental health had reached a crisis and he could barely get out of bed. He gradually came back. We ended up putting him on a medication to improve his seratonin levels, which helped too. Although I was able to finish my son’s education at home, I still feel he might have had a better education if we had a charter school designed for intelligent and highly functioning kids who have learning challenges, like they have in large cities like New York.
LikeLike
Here it’s still the case that home schooled children are penalised. This has to change.
LikeLiked by 1 person
What a mess.
LikeLike
Sadly it is
LikeLiked by 1 person
Sorry if I’ve already asked you this, but has Hawklad tried out different fonts on different coloured paper to see if it helps his dyslexia? Comic Sans font is ugly as hell but the best one for learning difficulties, and pale blue or pale pink paper are popular options.
LikeLike
He has. Did help a bit. Biggest help has been dropping the way reading is taught in school and trying new ways out that suit him better.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Being dyslexic myself, I’m really determined to teach my kids to read before they make it to the system. I remember the confusion about how I was taught to read. It was 20 years ago, and I was given some accommodations then. You’d expect that things have changed for better.
LikeLike
The mistake I made was to assume school would invest time in teaching every child to read. They will but only using one method approved by the government that just doesn’t work for every child. Then instead of trying other routes they too often just say the child can’t read and they give up.
LikeLike