It was time to live life on the edge. We finally charged up one of Hawklad’s birthday presents, a remote control helicopter. Not one of the professional ones, this one was surprisingly tiny made out of what appeared to be the thinnest of plastics and the most brittle of metals. It was one of those Amazon ‘80% off’ deals that entices you in for that one extra present, yet never quite explains to you that basically there is a really good reason this thing is so CHEAP.
Anyway after a few months it was time to give this helicopter its inaugural and probably only flight. The instructions talked optimistically of 15 minutes battery flying time, yet it gave off the impression of a single use item. As Hawklad said
“Well if it’s going to crash and burn on its first flight, let’s make it spectacular and film it”.
He remembers….
This is not our first dabble into the world of remote control, cheap toys.
There was the rally car that split in two when it hit the apple tree.
There was the toy drone that launched itself over the house and imbedded itself in the neighbour’s drive. It ended up as flat as a pancake.
There was the first helicopter then smashed into the house at a Warp Speed 10 and smashed into a thousand pieces.
And there was the so called unbreakable hovering glowing ball that had one uncontrolled hop before it smashed into the fence. It was then definitely anything other than unbroken.
So we were understandably not very hopeful. But you know what. The helicopter actually flew. It hovered. It landed. Yes it had a few heavy landings but it SURVIVED.

It was unmarked when the batteries ran out. Here is the really cool bit that made me smile. Hawklad took the remote control and flew it himself. Normally he backs away and watches others take control. He often just watches me do it. But on this day he had confidence in himself. Yes I had to check that we were fully alone first but he did it. He enjoyed it.


And here is what I figured out. Actually this was the first time that he took the controls, the first time I could convince him to have more fun doing than just watching. The first time he could overcome his fears of failure. So what did I figure out then…..
I’ve had the controls every single time one of the toys has crashed and burned. Muppet Dad is a liability. Toys last when I watch and don’t play. OH PANTS.
So my job is now paying for things and then most definitely just filming when they are enjoyed…….
This is so wonderful Gary.
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Thank you Di
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🙂
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🙏
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I love this story! My son is a much better pilot than I, and I’m pretty sure if he didn’t have the same helicopter as Hawklad, he had one very similar. Great photos!
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Thank you. We need to accept our limitations and let them fly ❤️
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A monumental memorable moment. I suspect it was also an epic blockbuster film. Yay Hawklad and Superdad! 😊❤❤
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There should be a movie about this, I might film it one day ❤️❤️
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Pretty epic in all regards. love the pics.
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Thank you ❤️ I will stick to Lego and Soft Toys from now on 🤣
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Love the photos ❤
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Thank you Tina ❤️
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So very fun!!
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Thank you
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It is a glorious thing when you can “hand over the reins” to the next generation! Good for you and good for Hawklad!
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It is.
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Congrats! Happy for Hawklad.
And you stop touching stuff! 😀 😀 😀
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I am officially on the no fly list now…
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😀 😀
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🙏
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Way to go both of you for taking flight! Loved the pics.
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Thank you. Yes he has the controls now.
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An interesting and significant observation/development.
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Thank you
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Perhaps it survived because he had the controls…. Just a thought 😂
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Definitely
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☺️
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Yeah, it’s a thing parents have to learn – kids do it better.
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They do, they just do.
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Parental paying and watching is what we are for! So glad you figured it out. It took me longer 🚁🚁
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Yes I know my place now 🤣🤣
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Building confidence one small step at a time and then suddenly without warning it presents itself, bidden from deep down in the self. Celebrate the moment like a chicken hatching from its shell.
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It really made me smile. Really did.
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This is so sweet, Hawklad can do anything!
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Thank you. Yes he can 🙏
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Lovely fun and the helicopter looks really good.
Good photos too.
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It’s still in one piece. I’m officially banned from it now. Hawklad just knows now…
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😁
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Thanks for the morning smile!
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Your most welcome
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This really has me smiling. Onwards and upwards
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So pleased. Thank you Derrick
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Thank you for the giggles and the grinning ❤ And yeah Dad, sometimes children know best, lol
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So pleased you smiled ❤️ I’m going to have to buy my own toys from now on 🤣🤣
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Probably, lol
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Love the photos. Completely uplifting in more than one way.
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I am so pleased you thought that
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Brilliant! So pleased for you both.
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😊😊
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Wow, so many insights at once. I am happy for Hawklad that him controlling the helicopter was a successful experience. I am sure it will give him the confidence to go a step further, and another one, and another one.
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Every step is a step forward 😊
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Toys have come such a long way from balsa wood airplanes that carry on over the longest field and into the village, landing in someone’s washing and having to ask nicely for it back.
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My dad use to make those for me
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I remember the huge ones that flew over the fields to the village. Maybe it was an English version of the Bermuda Triangle? With all that work making them, only some were never seen again. 🤣
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Still probably up there
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What an amazing way to spent time together! Your son is lucky to have you.
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I’m so lucky to have him. 😊
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Looks ace!
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Eat your heart out Tom Cruise 🤣🤣🤣
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I totally thought that when I saw it! I can imagine you now with those dark sunglasses and the uniform 😂😂
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Think more like someone from Outbreak….🤣🤣❤️
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